This is something I have been battling with especially as someone who’s very ambitious and loves to plan the way I would like certain things to go. I came to the realisation that a lot of my problems were stemming from the fact that I kept attaching achievements to my age and I will no longer be doing so for my sanity. Point. Blank….
When I was younger, I used to think I’ll do this, do that, and then I’ll be living the life I dreamt of with the perfect job, perfect spouse and maybe 2 or 3 kids running around by a certain age. To be fair, someone’s reality is probably exactly how they pictured it by a certain age as I type but you shouldn’t beat yourself up over it if things don’t go as accordingly for you.
Don’t get me wrong though, I believe It’s good to be ambitious and set certain time related milestones for yourself as it gives you a sense of direction. However, I think it’s also very important to understand that life will take its own course. It may be the course you want it to take or a completely different course but I can promise you life will do its own thing so relax your nerves and keep it moving if things aren’t going the way you want them to by a certain age.
Also, times are now completely different and we are in a completely different era. In our parents’ time, they may have achieved or acquired things a lot earlier than we’re doing and that’s fine. What we all need to understand is that everyone is on a completely different journey so comparing your journey to someone else’s doesn’t even make sense.
Last but not the least, we cannot predict the future. I believe the unprecedented times we’re in shows us that very well. What we can do rather than beating ourselves up when things don’t work out is adjust our plans as life goes on and tailor it to our current circumstances.
I want to end this with you guys on a positive note that as long as you’re actively working towards your goals, you’re bound to achieve them so let’s keep going.
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